Joy of single christian dating
One of the biggest struggles we face as Christian singles is wondering whether we've messed up God's plan for our lives.
It seems we don't fit into the prescribed pattern for the Christian life, so perhaps we took a wrong turn somewhere — went to the wrong school, took the wrong job, turned someone down for a date when we should have said yes.
To be single in our evangelical Christian society is to be different. They have good days - they go on missions trips and get involved in their church and go to Bible studies and buy houses and throw barbecues. And we think it's impossible to feel any differently about being single — to lose the depression, the loneliness, the longing.
For most of us, being single isn't what we planned. Why has He blessed most of our friends with the very thing we want? I've asked singles across the nation about the emotional struggles they face. But these difficult emotions lurk in the corners and sometimes take over - like when they get five wedding invitations in the course of one summer. As a single person, I wanted to understand why God put me here.
Many of us believe that to be content, one of two things must happen: We must get married, or we must purge ourselves of any desire to ever be married.
Actually, it is possible to change the way you feel.It might take some time to process this truth, to let this sink in and to grieve the potential loss of a dream. Lewis talks about this in his book, The Problem of Pain.